Story context
Vinny is talking privately with her friend Abby about Abby’s cousin Sarina.
“You know the same will happen to me…”
Abby believes she will be expected to go abroad and marry a cousin whether she wants to or not.
Understand the idea
A forced marriage is one in which one or both people do not freely consent, or cannot consent, and pressure, abuse or coercion is used. In England and Wales, conduct intended to cause someone under 18 to marry is an offence even if coercion is not used.
Think, don’t disclose
A fictional situation
Educational scenario: A young person is told that a wedding has been planned. They say they do not want it, but are told refusal is not an option.
Keep your answer about the fictional situation. You never need to discuss your own life or family.
Notice · Question · Reconsider
Freeze the story.
Do not decide what should happen yet. First, separate what the story tells you from what you think may be true.
Reflect privately
You may think silently, write privately or pass.
- Which words show that consent is missing?
- Why is a pressured ‘yes’ different from free consent?
Lesson summary
Forced marriage is about the absence of free and full consent—not a particular culture, religion or country.
Optional extension: Explore the book page to see how fiction can open a safe conversation.