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Optional quick activity

Ages 13–15  ·  Approx. time · 8–10 minutes  ·  This does not replace any of the 22 lessons

04

Why Can Asking for Help Be Hard?

You will practiseExplain barriers to disclosure without treating silence as consent.
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A person may want help and still find speaking difficult.

Why might someone stay silent even when they want help?

Understand the idea

Barriers may be practical, emotional, social or safety-related: fear, loyalty, dependence, uncertainty, housing, money, relationships and fear of not being believed.

You do not need to share anything about your own life or family.

A fictional situation

The person has previously said that everything is fine, but their circumstances suggest they may be frightened about what happens next.

Barrier map · Barriers to asking for help

Question 1 of 3 · Barrier map

Which of these may make asking for help difficult?

Choose one answer, then submit it.

Reflect privately

Write privately, think silently or pass. Nothing entered here is submitted or saved.

Silence is not consent, and changing an account does not make concern disappear.

Optional extension: Consider outing, immigration, disability, finance, housing and digital surveillance as possible barriers.